Doing the impossible is really hard. — August 26, 2017

Doing the impossible is really hard.

August 26, 2017

Absolutes are rare. Maybe we find more of these examples in sciences like physics. People??? Not so much. It only takes about a second to think of an example of this. Killing ok? Divorce? Love? Our society is experiencing social tectonics. Every day in many places, the ground literally shakes. However, most of the time, it is so slight that nobody notices. When the guy on the TV starts talking Richter scale, then we pay attention, why? Because it destroyed and made loud noises and scared people. Good or bad? Don’t know. Sometimes the difference between thrill and fatal is a bolt or two on a roller coaster. We are losing bolts at a rapid rate.

I believe I made this example in another writing, but it is worth a re-visit for this piece. A professor asked my class many years ago, “What makes a criminal?” He was fishing for some genetic or financial precursor that guaranteed a criminal. I ain’t smart, but I knew that sort of softball setup meant embarrassment with just about any answer we gave him. We know that criminals come in all shapes sizes and demographics, so my answer was, “Laws.” Laws make people criminal, not birth, head size or lack of money, etc. Want to solve the crime problem in America?? Get rid of laws!! Well… Let’s maybe table that action for a while. (Although, I think we are headed that way.) You cannot operate a society without rules. Documented, understood, spoken or codified or whatever. When there are two people, one will establish boundaries to/with/for the other. The founders chose to use the word “Unalienable” in our originating documents and that word has another expectation to be absolute that cannot simply be. It can’t be without a lot of WORK and efforts, anyway. Gravity here on earth is fairly constant and you don’t have to do anything to experience it consistently. “Rights” are not the same as gravity.

The next sentence may hurt some feelings. The constitution is just a piece of paper with some lofty expectations. Some don’t care about rules. They want what they want, when they want it and don’t give a rip about anything other than getting it. Others think perhaps the Constitution is some magical shield and sword combination that will last forever and vanquish every foe. And, there are many along a thousand million points of variance in between. A friend made the point and I think he is right. Soon, there will be no Constitution in this Country. Why? Because the schematics used to build the machine rely on a part that has a fatal design flaw.

America isn’t the first Country to go through this process. It may or may not be the last. Eons of civilizations have risen, prospered and fallen into history or dust. Standing way back, I akin this process to watching an artist toil and sacrifice in order to gather paint, brushes and canvas. The artist then sets about to create a beautiful masterpiece. Once finished, the artists lights it on fire and burns it to complete ash. The artist then starts gathering paint, brushes and a canvas… We are getting really close to striking that match in this Country.

The problem with progress and change is that it is a destructive constant when coupled with the other fatal design flaw part, people. People do not have the ability to do the impossible. We cannot be God. God made perfect. We cannot. God maintains infinite existence and knowledge in infinite space. We cannot. We get into trouble when we try. And when we try, it gets really tough. Doing the impossible is really difficult. What’s the difference between hard work and doing the impossible? Scroll up a few lines and look for roller coaster bolts. I haven’t met too many people just standing around screaming their head off that weren’t in great need of medication. Getting on that coaster carries some risk and there is usually greater reward when there is greater risk. A pitch can’t be both a strike and a home run. If every basketball game ended in a tie, people would not watch. If every paycheck was the same, there would be far fewer schools and I doubt many would work for others. Outside of faith in Christ, everything else worth having has a risk. Want a good thrill ride? Pay for your ticket, and strap in. Just know there’s that slight chance that your coaster car will bump out the last necessary bolt. A perfectly fulfilled life will brush past that last bolt many times.

I know I have said it before, but “America” isn’t a word you will find in the Bible. I believe that means there is a reasonable expectation that it will end. I don’t think Canada is in there either, so the Hollywood elite may want to check their airline ticket change policy before they purchase a one-way to YYZ. No, I suggest we all (yup, me too) start operating in absolutes and quit relying on the impossible. We are seeing so many try now. Another way of looking at this is using a cake baking analogy. We should not try to do the impossible, it doesn’t work out. Is trying a little ok? Nope, not really. If I were baking a cake and used only a “little” feces in the batter, would that be ok? Doubtful, so let’s quit expecting the impossible in our walk on this earth.

What does that look like? Live a life of purposeful witness by loving God, loving people and serving. It is free and easy. When it gets difficult, maybe you aren’t ready for what you are trying. Or maybe you are trying to do the impossible. Either way, you can always go back and do just the easy parts and be just fine for eternity. The easy parts are necessary and absolute, like breathing.  Maintaining a perfect Country in perpetuity is impossible. Getting everybody to like and agree is impossible. Eliminating stupid and selfish is impossible. The very difficult is keeping Rights by way of a Constitution. It requires some continuous action in order to make it happen. America just stopped working at making their rights happen. America also stopped doing the necessary. Sort of like giving up breathing so we can focus on the color of our hat. The result is pain, followed by brief panic and eventual death. Stop loving God or people and the same thing happens. You don’t get harmony and heaven without some continuous effort and doing the necessary things. It’s easy, but necessary. But like breathing, most of us don’t really have to work at it. We tend to only work at the difficult and impossible. But if you stop doing the easy, that will be fatal. Stopping the impossible can be refreshing.

– R. A. Grier

Man, how we have screwed up a good thing. — August 16, 2017

Man, how we have screwed up a good thing.

August 16, 2017

 

It is clear that I am not wanted here anymore. The new guy, sorry, the new person has taken my place. I will gather my things and walk out of the building quietly with my cardboard moving luggage. People want to hate and people want to be right for all of their choices and beliefs. Temporarily, the rules of social physics can be ignored. But sooner or later, that pesky constant called reality sneaks back in… Everybody can’t have everything and be right all the time. Those concepts are exclusive of reality as far as “We the People” go. We aren’t capable of civilly being different or disagreeing in this land anymore. Let’s not kid ourselves. There are many hate groups of all genders, sexes, creeds and colors and religions. Recognized or not, they exist and have power.

 

My one sentence interpretation of the origins for America — America was created and built to protect people who had been harmed and equip them to not allow it to happen again. They wanted to be free from tyranny. They had to Unite to protect and afford those protections. Nationalism meant standing up for a common good and purpose. Unalienable Rights were identified by the framers to protect, not to be used as weapons to divide. That creation blossomed into absolutely the most-bestest land on the planet. Opportunity for everybody and potential riches way, way, WAY beyond any person’s needs. Comfort has killed us. Over the decades, our land has become a quagmire of rules, lies and Bureaucratic meddling for one side or another. America is now a grotesque mutation of the original intent. “Not enough”, driven by greed has replaced altruism and freedom. We pawned that freedom long ago in exchange for comfort.

 

No. Now we can’t reason or talk civilly. Any idiot can yell and scream and hurt. That takes little to no skill or talent. Thinking is hard. Reason is tough. Common good is a significant effort made by serious people. No, we are now left with the option of dividing the space and eliminating all of the symbols and examples of offensiveness. Everybody is offended all the time and the moment it is decided to help or support one group, then another is disenfranchised. Equitable is the elimination of all offensive materials or creating individual space for each group, thus ending the United part of USA. It’s the MeSA or UsSA now. There are consequences, responsibilities and burdens associated with operating the best Country on the planet. The consequences were ignored and falsely muted with unnatural guaranteed outcomes. The responsibilities were ignored and left up to somebody else because it was easier that way. Burdens are too much like work for a lot of inhabitants of this land. Again, much easier to take rather than create. We keep electing foxes to watch over our precious henhouse and we keep getting mad and hurt when they let us down; then we pick another fox.

 

Y’all, I don’t give a damn about statues. Somebody beat me to it, and pointed out that we actually have statues in this Country of some other very bad people that nobody cares about. We aren’t savvy enough to recognize that probably less than one half of one percent of people could identify any of those people depicted, so they are now just “art.” Different but similar type folks who are trying to tear down the statues will rant and rave protest for Mapplethorpe making a picture about a priest pooping on a napkin while riding a house cat — that is protected art and free speech after all!!! Let me be clear. I despise the behaviors of those who hate people for no other reason than ignorance and stupidity. I stop it when it is present in my world. That same courtesy has become increasingly missing for me. Even more so I am being blamed and punished very similarly as those expressing historical transgressions and hurt. You can’t get to equal and harmony by demanding to be more than equal and trying to shame or tear down another group in the process. You can’t fix wrong by doing the same wrong things. Crap, that is revenge, not progress.

Fair in America today means 100% my way all the time and you are less than dust if you don’t see it my way and give me everything I want NOW! Some embellishment, but definitely the direction we are going and the destination we will arrive at shortly. How do these folks have all this time on their hands to be offended and destructive as a collective? If it weren’t for a cancellation, I would be busy right now! Do you now how many opportunities I would have to be hurt and offended if I tried really hard to focus on that? Y’all, I got stuff to do! AND, I have learned that if you play with stupid people long enough you tend to get some on you. Don’t play with them! Don’t feed stray cats! Wait, got lost on the rabbit trail…

 

I have been called many things from hater to racist to greedy or whatever. Don’t give a rip. Why? Because I know what I do when I do it.. I also know my intentions behind my choices. I don’t owe anybody anything other than courtesy and a helping hand, if I can. Even that has been taken advantage of so much, I am thinking I have squandered my talents or have become a fool. For a while, I thought I owed it to my Country to work hard, sacrifice and make sure my kids were raised correctly to follow the rules, respect authority and other, now mostly junk ideals that go to enable the selfish and evil. Today, working hard, sacrificing and playing by the rules almost makes you a sucker. Nice guys do finish last, you know. Our leadership does not deserve respect or deference because they have been corrupted into lying, cheating thieves. I don’t recognize what a President is anymore based on recent and current examples. Congress is a cesspool of graft and corruption. Serious rabbit trail down that way…

 

We are going to get what many are screaming, rioting and begging for… we are going to get evicted. That is if we are lucky enough to not get eliminated first. America is now filled with partially educated people with an ever-increasing percentage of diplomas and advanced degrees. A Democracy is “Everybody has a say.” Even if you are dumb as hell and evil. A Republic is “Everybody has a voice.” To keep a republic, you have to work and sacrifice and reason with each other for a common good. We have little-to-no experience idiots who think they can drive a Ferrari because they stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night. Corporations have hijacked social groups and media and often the other way around for personal gain. Fools continue to rant and riot for one side or another. There are so many Red Herring swimming around that we are going to starve to death trying to catch every one of them.

 

It’s not a threat. One day We will stand up again. Pray, plan and prepare. America was a good idea and did good things for good reasons. Sure, it had problems and issues. Sort of like a good dog, some slobber and a few fleas doesn’t mean you trade him in or put him down. But we have fixed and done surgery so much that it is so disfigured in an attempt to make everybody happy. I think they knew what they were writing when they said we have the right to pursue happiness. We don’t have the guarantee of the outcome. I have babbled enough for one day. I get the impression that these writings are mostly for me to process and get through the confusion and frustration.

 

— R. A. Grier