The sea is full of Red Herring and the spin cycle is on supersonic. The problem with “truth” is that too many people look to man rather than God for truth. We have the ability to lie, justify, rationalize, and minimize anything. I am very comfortable in talking in terms of psychology and counseling and believe that I am qualified in that arena. Here is the first example. If two parents give their child completely different interpretations of right and wrong on a subject, what happens with the child? What if the parents are consistent in their polar-opposite mixed messages? The child often become confused, distraught and will eventually adopt independence prior to adequate development in socialization and learning. That’s a whole bunch of psychobabble for the kid getting confused, hurt and mad and globalizing anger and distrust to all authority due to the ineptness of their parents.
Now, I am flesh. I want to hurt people who hurt me. I want the consequences of my choices to be lessened or avoided altogether. I often won’t change bad habits because there aren’t serious enough or immediate enough penalties for my habits. I want things to be fun and easy. I like for things to be my way. I enjoy being mischievous and sometimes smile when I am irresponsible. I am flesh.
The yang to my yin is that I am a child of God. The choices I make and the habits I take directly reflect my respect for the Father. Therefore, I work harder than I have to. I forgo choices of easy conveniences that have long-term consequences. I also care how my choices affect others. I do this because the destination is not an accounting of accomplishments or wealth on Earth or six feet under. The destination is the acceptance into heaven by my loving Father.
Abortion is wrong. So is death row. Wars aren’t for profit or convenience, but rather an often necessary last resort for a greater opportunity for peace. Economics ought not to be for control of another, but for an opportunity for us all to advance toward “better”. A line that I use to illustrate choices in counseling with my clients is, “There are at least a thousand ways to get to Detroit from here.” The analogy is clear, I hope, in the case of this election and our Country’s future – as long as we all agree that we are going to ‘Detroit’.
Saying that there is separation of church and state is about the same as saying where God can and cannot go because you know what is best for him. I do not. Neither Obama nor Romney tells me what to think or believe. Neither the law of man nor the trappings of pop-sociology are my guide for my choices, goals or behaviors. Obama and Romney are just turning in their respective applications and going through the interview process for a job. Both are saying that they want to work for me. Each candidate has to make the same pleas and present their best reasons for being hired in front of each of their prospective “bosses”, otherwise known as voters.
Who am I kidding? What I see is that American voters educate themselves for a few hours at best about the choices they will make in the booth. Further, their education on the choices comes from TV and other advertisements. Still further, some just pick randomly in the booth. ALL of these are but a small percentage of the entire citizenry of the Country. AND we WONDER why things are confusing and often contentious??? I see people blaming companies and the wealthy for their plight while all along they make very poor choices. I see the fickle bounce along from situation to situation looking for others to guide them and wondering why they feel out of control. I see neighborhoods and cultures multigenerationally deep into heritage indigence and depravity trying to blame their way out of those conditions. I see a Country, too ignorant or truly caring to stop enabling these things.
E Pluribus Unum translates into “out of many, one”. We are certainly many, not only in numbers but in ever-growing ideologies. What makes a country different from a hotel room that you rent for the night or a car you borrow? Who are the “we” in “We the people…?” What is the glue that binds us into “Americans”? I don’t know. It seems that we are more and more a loose federation of regions and/or States. The trend in ideological difference paired with a lack of “we” glue will end in a dissolution of the United State of America marked by another civil war.
As we all know, we can get away with bad habits for a while. Each has broken a “minor law” like speeding or jaywalking and knew that it was wrong when we did it. We don’t care because we get away with these sorts of things more often than we get “caught” for them. Our society has made a habit and now a culture of creating avoidance opportunities for all sorts of consequences. It won’t be very long before the smoke clears and the mirror clearly shows us who we are. If anyone believes that one election or man in that election is going to save America, then they are not only delusional, but dangerously ignorant. America is crawling down a path of evil and destruction. Some people are willingly helping the rest of us move faster down that path. Some others are just followers along for the ride because there are no real consequences, yet.
While we face an important decision here in a few weeks about the next figure head of our Country, I ask you to take more than a few moments to consider more important choices. I ask that you look at the everyday choices you make to determine if those decisions are helping or hurting. Do they contribute to the greater good? Are those choices done in secret or hiding because you know that they are wrong? If you REALLY want to change the course of our Country, I ask that you change the course of your lives (all of us certainly can) and then help change the course of our neighborhoods and schools and communities.
So, the decision isn’t about a President. Neither man will change our lives. The decision is about personal choices and directions for our lives. Our government just works for us. I have made foreboding predictions about our future. There will come a point in time where the “haves” and “doers” are outnumbered and out consumed by the “have-nots” and “takers”. When we get closer to that point, the process of demise will speed up like when one or two people fall off the losing side of the tug-of-war rope. Those making it happen will quit and turn to take care of themselves and their families. When that day comes, you will have many generations “trained” to be helpless and angry because the food isn’t in the trough fast enough or to their liking. On that day, those without guidance from God because they chose the comfortable path of populist secularism will have no law or government to look after them. Those people will turn violent and seek to steal and take what is no longer given. Others who are “undecided” will join in the chaos out of fear or freeze due to the same and become easy prey.
I doubt many will have read this article this far. It is too difficult for the already learned-helpless to consider and besides there is some quality TV on that will help them with ignoring their problems and everything else. Still others will dismiss it because I said “God” and they have had no relationship with him and few they know, including their parents, do either. Still others were turned off because I talk about politics. “It’s all lies and BS” and “why bother with that?” I believe it was Adolf Hitler that said, “How fortunate for leaders that men do not think.”
Romney and Obama have each said it; we are faced with the responsibility of choosing different paths. Believe if you want that not choosing or rather ignoring the unpleasant or not doing the difficult things will make everything better. Choose wisely.
– R. A. Grier